1. What is the Recovery method?
The Recovery method is a compilation of many simple yet practical coping techniques. To gain inner peace, users learn how to change the way they react to people and situations over which they have no control. They also learn how to identify and manage negative thoughts, feelings, beliefs, and behaviour that can lead to emotional distress and stress- related physical symptoms. This self-help technique is learned through studying the Recovery literature, regular attendance at the weekly meetings, and, above all, daily practice.
2. Can the Recovery method be described as a therapy?
In therapy there is a therapist-client relationship and usually the therapist plays a directive role in helping the client. In self-help, on the other hand, there is no such one-to-one relationship. The person needing help is trained in some technique, say, Recovery method, and he learns to practice and master it by himself, on his own initiative. In a self-help group there is no dependence except on the method. Thus, Recovery is not a therapy administered by a professional. Changes in user after consistent use of this method may lead one to believe it is a therapy.
Professionals accept that it has the scientific basis of CBT, that is, ‘Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.’ All the same, outcome of internalizing the method is important.
3. What happens at the weekly meeting?
Each meeting has a similar structure: The meeting begins with self-introductions if any new members are present. After this members volunteer examples that describe how they have used this self-help method to cope better. Sharing is done in four steps laid down by the Recovery method. Every member gets a chance to share his/her experience. After this sharing, if time permits, some of the coping tools or recovery literature is read and discussed.
4. Can you elaborate the term Recovery Method?
Dr Abraham Low, a neuropsyhiatrist, introduced this method in 1937 in the US. He found limitations in the traditional methods used to treat mentally ill persons. He found that patients found more relief when they were taught simple strategies to deal with day-to-day problems. Users meet in a group and they share their experiences in a four-step format.
1. Briefly describe the event coped with.
2. Narrate the physical and mental symptoms experienced due to this event.
3. Which tools of Dr Low were used to cope with this event?
5. experience before and after using the Recovery method.
In the first step, the person who is sharing has to recall a single event, which upset him. Care is taken to see that the event chosen is one specific event, not a general issue like marriage, employment etc. It should be one single thread of an event. For example, the person may have had an argument with his sibling that morning. He simply describes that specific argument without getting into his sibling’s general attitude, past experiences etc.
In the next step the person shares with the group the symptoms, both physical and mental, while the event occurred. For instance, he may have felt blood rushing to his head, palpitation, throat drying up, hands trembling etc.
The third and an important step: being able to recall any of Dr Low’s tools at the crucial time. This is known as spotting appropriate tool to cope with the event. For example, he may have recalled the tool” My internal peace is my supreme goal.” And this may have made him take a better perspective of the situation and be able to maintain peace instead of ending up in an argument.
In the last step, he tries to understand what would have been the situation had he not used the method. Perhaps, in this particular example, the person would have let the argument escalate to such an extent he could have lost control. But because he used the tool in time, the situation got resolved without any harm.
After sharing the event in these four steps the person endorses himself for his effort to use the method and deal with his symptoms.
After this whole cycle is completed others from the group also endorse him. Further they they express as to what other tools also he has unknowingly used in dealing with this event. Thereafter it is someone else’s turn in the group to share.
5. Recovery self-help support group advantages:
• Helps release pent-up feelings.
• No fear of criticism or judgment.
• Breaks stigmatized isolation.
• Encourages socialization.
• Generates a sense of belonging.
• Opportunity to learn from each other.
• Promotes mutual inspiration.
• Supportive attitude of members.
• Builds sense of hope & security.
• Helps members develop insight.
• Triggers self-initiatives.
• Nurtures self-confidence.
6. Important spotting tools
1. Maintaining inner peace is my supreme goal.
2. My internal peace is more important than my anger.
3. Helplessness is not hopelessness.
4. Nervous symptoms are distressing but not dangerous.
5. I can’t control external but only my internal environment.
6. Setback is part of life. I am an average person.
7. Feelings are not facts.
8. People do things that irritate us, not to irritate us.
9. We can’t control feelings & impulses; we can control muscles and thoughts.
10. We can’t control outer environment but we can control our reaction to it.
11. Illness is fate-appointed, not self-appointed.
12. We can break old habit patterns.
13. Endorse for the effort, not for the outcome.
14. Have the courage to make a mistake.
15. There is no right or wrong way to view trivialities of everyday life.
16. It is hard to feel comfortable in an uncomfortable situation.
17. Try-fail, try-fail, try-succeed.
18. Don’t look regretfully into the past or fearfully into the future.
19. I should lower my expectations.
20. Fear feeds the symptoms and the symptoms feed the fear.
21. Every act of self-control leads to self-respect.
22. Strive for peace, order and balance.
23. Fearful anticipation is worse than the realization.
24. Be willing to bear discomfort and comfort will come.
25. Self-imposed expectations lead to self-induced disappointment and frustration.
26. Don’t measure good mental health by how you feel.
27. It is how you function, not how you feel.
28. Feelings can be expressed with culture and control.
29. Practice being self-led, not symptom-led.
30. Thoughts can be rejected, suppressed or dropped.
31. Control your speech muscles.
32. Take the total view.
33. Lower your standards and performance will rise.
34. Re-training the brain.
35. Do it in part-acts.
36. Excuse rather than accuse.
37. It happened by chance, not by choice.
38. Self-appointed expectations lead to disappointments.
39. Be group-minded.
7. Is sharing of an experience in the group meetings compulsory?
There is no compulsion to share. You may share when you think you are ready. Being an attentive observer at the meetings is also a good learning experience. On the other hand you stand to gain much more by actual sharing in the four-step format.
8. Why does the Recovery method insist on sharing experience in the four- step format only?
The simple method provides a clear, structured, and brief format. Before this method was introduced, meetings held in a non-structured fashion were not fruitful. In such a flexible form discussion was often dominated by a few members. Focus was on their problems and suffering. Another major risk is going off the track. The four-step method ensures that participants briefly narrate the disturbing event and then proceed to share success stories. Thus, the four-step structure has positive impact.
9. What Types of problems does Recovery help manage?
The Recovery method offers techniques to help manage a wide variety of problems such as anger, stress, anxiety, depression, exaggerated fears, compulsions, obsessions, phobias, etc. Members learn how to observe and cope with nervous symptoms such as palpitation, dizziness, shortness of breath, sweating, fatigue, headache, numbness, chest pressure, and lack of sleep.
10. How will Recovery help me solve my problems?
Members learn specific strategies for coping with the stress and strain of everyday life. There are no hopeless cases. Recovery does not deal directly with past problems or analyse the causes of problems. Simple day-to-day experiences, as they arise are dealt with. This has a beautiful utility. You see, it is these small trivial issues, when not dealt with at the very moment that build up over a time. They start forming layer over layer and end up as a huge problem which we describe as anger, fear etc. The Recovery method encourages you to deal with these issues then and there.
11. Is there any time when one stops coming to the Recovery group meetings?
This does happen sometime. Generally to avoid embarrassment, we do not ask a member the reason. His freedom of choice is respected. We want to create a free and secure environment. Many times the member himself confesses he regrets that he missed the last meeting!
12. How long does one need to attend these weekly meetings?
This depends on the person, the nature and severity of his condition. The goal is for members to attend until they learn the Method well enough to function independently and efficiently. It takes more than a few weeks to master new skills and change old habits. After you have achieved mastery over the method, you may still choose to attend the meetings for purposes like socialization, support, endorsement, friendship and to motivate new comers.
13. When can one expect improvement his/her condition?
As one starts using the Recovery stress management tools on a daily basis, one begins to experience improvement. But, the extent and quality of improvement will vary from person to person. Only understanding the method is not enough, its application in daily life is what is more important.
14. Does the user stop using medication when he starts feeling better using the Recovery method?
No. It is solely the doctor’s prerogative whether to increase, reduce or stop medication after assessing the progress being made by his patient.
15. If one takes part in the Recovery group meetings, can one stop seeing his/her health-care provider?
It is advised that one continues to see his/her professional. Group members, who are lay persons, do not diagnose illnesses or symptoms. When ones not sure if a symptom is caused from tension, strain or a physical ailment, it is necessary one sees a doctor for diagnosis.
16. Does the use of the word ‘recovery’ create unrealistic expectations about the method when it is widely believed that schizophrenia is life-long?
Schizophrenia may no doubt last lifelong in some cases, but that doesn’t mean the person needs to suffer lifelong. Just as we learn to live as comfortably as we can with other ailments like diabetes or hypertension there’s nothing much different in case of mental illness. As long as you take necessary treatment and precautions and also strengthen your physical/mental self, there’s nothing stopping you from feeling and being ‘recovered.’
The word ‘recovery’ indicates progress on the path of improvement. A gradual positive change. Hence this word is applicable for a person at any level of his wellbeing. In fact persons who have attended Recovery groups have not only recovered but they also serve as facilitators or motivators. Some members of our groups can be said to be role models.
17. Do users feel the absence of professionals at the weekly meetings?
None has experienced it so far. In the non-judgmental and empathetic atmosphere of our group meetings, the need for a professional is unlikely to be felt. It is possible that the user is already in touch with his doctor or counsellor. Further it is not that professionals never visit our SHSG. They lecture or guide, once in a while, at our invitation.
18. As sharing consists of personal details, are they treated confidential?
Confidentiality is definitely maintained. Members may choose to share their experiences, their own successful efforts using the Recovery method. Recovery support group meetings provide a safe place for members to express their feelings, what upsets or frightens them. Yet there is no compulsion to share, because you may attend the meetings and not share anything until you feel safe and ready. This helps many who find it difficult to open out quickly. Supportive atmosphere here is created because there is no judgment passed. Plus, what is discussed remains within the group.
19. How do I learn to share experience in a structured way?
The facilitator will help you as you give your first example about something that upset you. You will also learn by listening to others as they share their experience. It is quite normal initially to be nervous about participating in the group. As you realize that there is no criticism or judging, you will feel comfortable to share without hesitation.
20. When does one start to comment on another member’s example?
When one has learned a couple of simple Recovery tools from either listening to others at the meetings or reading Recovery books, one will feel confident to do this. As part of a disciplined group one is expected to wait for ones turn to comment, as one does for sharing ones experience.